Nyanzvi yepfungwa: Vatyairi vanoita semapere ari muchikwata
Andrzej Markowski, nyanzvi yepfungwa dzemumigwagwa, mutevedzeri wapurezidhendi weAssociation of Transport Psychologists muPoland, anotaura nezvechikonzero nei varume vakawanda vachiona kutyaira sokurwa uye mabatiro avangaita nehasha dzomumugwagwa.
Varume vanotyaira zviri nani kupfuura vakadzi here kana kuti zvakanyanya? Nhamba dzemapurisa dzinosiya pasina mubvunzo kuti dzinokonzera tsaona dzakawanda.
- Varume havamhanyi zvakanyanya kupfuura vakadzi, vane tsaona dzakawanda. Izvi zvinodaro nekuti vanotyaira nekukurumidza, vanotyaira vakashinga, vane mwero wakaderera wekuchengetedza pane vakadzi. Vanongoda kuratidzira pamberi pevakadzi, kutonga mumugwagwa, izvo zvinokonzerwa nemajini ekugadzirisa.
Saka pane biological theory nezve kurwira kwemurume kutonga munzira?
- Zvechokwadi hongu, uye iyi haisi dzidziso, asi tsika. Muchiitiko chemutyairi wechirume, nzira yakasiyana zvachose yepfungwa dzake inoshanda pane yemukadzi. Munhu anorwa pakutanga kwezvose nokuda kwenzvimbo yekutanga muboka, kana ndikagona kushandisa izwi kubva kunyika yemhuka. Saka anofanirwa kubhadharisa, pamberi pevamwe, achigara achizviratidza uye achiratidza simba rake. Nenzira iyi, mukomana anozvipa - kana kuti pamwe anoda kuzviita asingazivi - kuwana kune vakadzi vakawanda sezvinobvira. Uye izvi, chaizvoizvo, ndiyo biology yemarudzi evanhu - uye kwete chete marudzi evanhu. Saka, kutyaira kwevarume mukukura kwavo kwakasiyana nekwevakadzi. Muchiitiko chekupedzisira, hutsinye hunenge huri kunze kwemubvunzo, kunyange, senguva dzose, pane zvisizvo.
Saka iwe unogona kufanofungidzira kuti ndiani ari kutyaira asina kutarisa kunze kwegirazi remhepo?
- Kazhinji unogona. Mumwe mutyairi wechirume ane ruzivo, ane ruzivo mukurwisana kwemugwagwa, anogona kutaurira kubva kure kuti ndiani ari kutyaira motokari: mukwikwidzi wake, i.e. mumwe murume, nhengo yebonde rakanaka, kana murume akapfeka ngowani. Mushure mezvose, izvi ndizvo zvinowanzonzi varume vakuru, "Vatyairi veSvondo" vanosarudza kufamba kwakanyarara uye, zvinoshamisa, kazhinji vanopfeka ngowani. Kunze kwekunge vese vekuwedzera uye munyoro ari muheti vari kufamba zvakadzikama.
Kurwa kwakadaro kwevarume mumugwagwa, zvinosuruvarisa, kune epilogue yayo inosuruvarisa - tsaona, rufu, kuremara kwevamwe vashandisi vemugwagwa vakawanda.
“Uye izvi zvakakosha kuti ticherechedzwe tisati tasunda gasi zvakanyanya mumotokari. Pasinei nemamiriro ezvinhu ehupenyu aya, zvakakosha uye zvinofanira kutyaira maererano nemitemo yemugwagwa. Kune mamwe makwikwi akawanda.
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